Most adults know what a dildo is all about and most have just a general idea of how to use it. However, there are dildo techniques that you can employ to give your wife enormous pleasure. So if you are asking yourself the question ‘’How to use a dildo on my wife?’’, then this article is for you.
Read how a dildo is different from a vibrator here.
Using a dildo to deliver deep thrusts is usually the first thing people do when they first start playing with a dildo. And it’s not wrong to make deep thrusts as your wife will feel amazing.
Making a deep thrust with a dildo is easy. You only need to push the dildo all the way in and bring it out again. By making this motion, you will be stimulating the A-spot and G-spot.
You should keep the communication lines open with your wife while making deep thrusts. Every woman has different preferences. So ask her about the speed or depth that she likes.
Shallow Thrusts
Unlike deep thrusts, the shallow thrust means that you don’t push the entire length of the dildo inside. The goal of the shallow thrust is to stimulate the G-spot and this will cause a different sensation from the deep thrust.
The shallow thrust also stimulates different erogenous zones. Rather than stimulating the deeper parts of the vagina, shallow thrusts additionally stimulate the vaginal opening, which is often forgotten.
You should start slowly and build up speed. Again, make sure to communicate with your wife about what speed is right to give her the best pleasure. Keep in mind that you can go overboard with the speed and your wife won’t feel nice.
Hitting The G-Spot
This dildo play is all about identifying the G-spot and providing intense pleasure from stimulating the erogenous area. Hitting The G-Spot technique is perhaps the most common way for women to achieve squirting orgasms.
To implement this technique, you need to have a general idea of where the G-spot is located. Then, once you’ve found your partner’s G-spot, just insert enough of the dildo’s length to ensure the tip is in the G-spot area. Now comes the crucial part.
You need to tilt the dildo upward slowly. The goal here is to apply enough pressure so your wife can feel the G-spot being isolated and stimulated. However, you shouldn’t apply too much pressure as that can become unpleasant and uncomfortable. Again, communication here is crucial.
Then continue to further stimulate the G-spot using a dildo and make quick and shallow thrusts. Because of the intense and overwhelming feeling your wife gets when you directly stimulate her G-spot, she may start to scream with pleasure. Unless it’s your kink to be heard, you should take some necessary precautions to ensure that your playtime stays private.
Rotating Head
The Rotating Head technique is a great way to start your dildo play. The idea is to insert an inch or two of the dildo and rotate the toy. This technique is better done using a dildo designed to look like a penis and not the smooth, symmetrical and tube types.
Also, make sure that the tip is hitting the G-spot area for best results.
Double Stimulation
If you want to take your dildo play to the next level, then a double stimulation may be the best choice for you. The idea here is to stimulate both the vagina and anus simultaneously. Most women like their anus opening stimulated with a dildo, which is very different from fingering. Hence, some women might find anal fingering strange, but most are open to anal opening stimulation.
What you can do here is use the dildo to stimulate the vagina. At the same time, you continuously use your fingers to stimulate the anus opening. Of course, if your wife enjoys anal fingering, you can do that too instead.
The other way of doing it is to use the dildo to stimulate the anus while your fingers or mouth stimulate the vagina.
Conclusion
Up to now, you have learned about a few dildo play techniques you can try. Also, you can combine these techniques with different positions. For example, you can do the dildo play while your wife is
* On her back
* On all fours
* Sitting on sofa, chair or bed
Combining these different positions and techniques mentioned above creates a new sexual world that you can explore with your wife.
