With the amount of discussion we see these days on the topic of anal sex, it would be easy to assume that everyone is into anal. This is incorrect, not everyone is interested in anal and that is fine. In fact, individuals who do not participate in anal play may well wonder why other people enjoy it. By the end of this article, we hope to answer that question and provide useful information for making the activity even more enjoyable by outlining the difference between different types of anal toys.
Anal play may involve either a couple or an individual. It involves inserting a penis/finger or a sex toy into the anus. The sex toys include both dildos and butt plugs. There are other devices, but in this article we will concentrate on the butt plug vs dildo and in the next section we will take a closer look at them.
Why Is This Pleasurable?
In the case of a male, about two inches inside the rectum is the prostate. Many men find the stimulation of the prostate arousing and capable of producing stronger orgasms. This does not apply to females, since they do not have a prostate. However, the rectum runs alongside the vagina and there is only a narrow barrier between the two. Entry into the rectum may well stimulate the vagina. This, combined with the feeling of being filled anally and the stretching of the butthole, may intensify pleasure. For both men and women, there is also a psychological element. Now let’s investigate the butt plug vs dildo.
Dildos
A dildo is a sex toy that is designed to be inserted into either the vagina or anus. They come in a variety of materials, shapes and sizes, often shaped like a penis. Many are slightly curved, so that they stimulate the G-spot or prostate. You can learn how to ride a dildo here.
What Dildos Are Best For Beginners Experimenting With Anal?
Since a novice’s anus is not used to being stretched, it is best to start small and over time build up to larger devices. A dildo must have a flared base. Without this feature, it is possible for the dildo to be sucked completely into the anus during climax (when the sphincter suddenly contracts, creating a suction effect). This can lead to an embarrassing visit to the hospital emergency department. Do not forget to purchase lube to make entry easier.
Types Of Dildos
Vaginal dildos and anal dildos (see here) are not the same product. A vaginal dildo doesn’t normally have a flared base, while an anal dildo does. Hygiene is of greater importance when it comes to an anal dildo and, ideally, an anal dildo should be constructed of non-porous materials. It is important to learn how to clean a dildo.
Some dildos are designed with a built-in vibrator for extra pleasure, others are just solid material. Some vibrators are created with smooth surfaces, while others have a texture. Which of these you choose is down to personal taste, although smooth surfaces may be more hygienic.
Butt Plugs
A butt plug is a type of anal toy that essentially plugs your butt. They feature a teardrop shape and a broader base to keep them from being pulled in too deep.
Your anus contains a plethora of sensitive nerve endings that feel fantastic when stimulated. Your buttocks serve as a portal to the prostate, commonly known as the “male G-spot,” as well as a detour to the vaginal A-spot and G-spot.
What Butt Plugs Are Best For Beginners?
A good rule of thumb is that beginners should start with a toy that is smaller in size. It is preferable to use little plugs that are around the size of a finger or two in order to insert them easily and gently stretch the tissue surrounding your anus. Eventually, you may wish to switch to bigger plugs, which may be as huge as a fist in diameter.
When you’re aroused, you relax your entire body, including your anal sphincter. As a result, the more sexually stimulated you are, the more delightful anal sex will be. Anal play necessitates the use of lubricant because the anus does not generate its own lubricant in the same way as the vagina.
The muscles sealing the anus are invariably tight, so they have to be trained to loosen up before you can find anal sex comfortable, and butt plugs are perfect for this. You can use a butt plug for several hours in a session, which gradually trains the rectum so that you can enjoy the experience.
Conclusion
What distinguishes a butt plug from a dildo or a vibrator? While there are several dildos meant for anal usage, a butt plug is intended to be inserted and remain inserted for the duration of its use. While you could technically slide a plug in and out if you wanted to, most people prefer to use dildos for the “in-and-out” experience.