When it comes to the most popular sex toys, dildos are perhaps one of the best known options on the market. So just what is a dildo? In short, dildos are a type of sex toy designed primarily for internal penetration and stimulation, and they can come in a huge range of sizes, shapes, types, designs and finishes. As with other silicone toys, not all dildos are created equal, and gaining an overview and understanding of the different options helps you to narrow down your search, find exciting new sex toys and add a new level of pleasure to your relationship – whether you’re flying solo, or trying something new with a partner.
So just what is a dildo? In the simplest terms, dildos are types of sex toys which is designed for sexual play, and are shaped to replicate and emulate a real life penis and testicles. They can be used to emulate oral sex using the mouth, or inserted into the anus, vagina or other parts of the body, to massage the prostate or clitoris for sexual pleasure and intimacy. Options come in a range of different materials, including silicone, plastic and even glass – the latter can be perfect for temperature play. Whether gay, straight or anything in between, dildos unlock a host of possibilities for you and your partner, and can even offer health benefits!
The Benefits Of Dildos
There are a variety of benefits to these toys – and these are not all related to sexual fulfilment.
Better Sleep
The right toy can be the secret to putting you to sleep – a fantastic orgasm releases prolactin, a sleep producing hormone, and can be the key to a solid eight hours, and have you drifting off to dreamland in no time.
Beat Stress And Pain
A good orgasm also offers benefits to your wellbeing – the sensation produces oxytocin and serotonin, both of which are “feel good” hormones, and help you to beat stress. These chemicals can also help your heart health by neutralizing stress hormones. Orgasms can also help to relieve period pain and cramp.
Boost Vaginal Health
Regular masturbation using vibrating dildos such as these can care for and maintain the walls of the vagina by increasing moisture and elasticity – these are crucial in helping the vagina stay healthy and produce its own natural lubricant. Arousal also opens the cervix, allowing unwanted fluids to be flushed out from the cervix and urinary tract.
Sex toys and dildos have become a big part of sex, featuring heavily in sexual fantasies of all types, and helping to drive intimacy.
Types Of Dildo
Not all dildos are created equal – there are a number of types and options, and it is a good idea to experiment and find out your ideal option by having plenty of sex!
Type
Description
Best For…
Suction cup
- Comes with a suction cup base
- Solo play, and trying a range of positions – including the shower walls
Double ended
- Perfect for sharing between two partners
- Double penetration
Glass or metal dildo
- Unique sensations
- Unique textures, smooth, comfortable feel
- Couples play
Squirting dildos
- Narrow, hollow center with an opening on the top of the head of the penis
- Reservoir contains fluid with lube or water
- Mimicking ejaculation
- Realistic sensation
Real skin dildos
- Made of realistic silicone
- Realistic sensation
Vibrating dildo
- Come with a vibrating mechanism
- Realistic sensation
- Vibration offers extra stimulation
Strap on dildos
- Worn with a harness, allows penetration of the anus and prostate
- Trying something new with partners
The Difference Between Dildos And Vibrators
Dildos and vibrators are amongst the most popular options for sex toys, but can offer unique and different sexual experiences. So just what is the difference? We took a closer look…
Dildos
A type of sex toys created to replicate the shape of the penis. They are inserted into the vagina or anus to stimulate the prostate, testicles, clitoris and other parts of the body for amazing sexual sensations.
Vibrators
Sex toys which vibrate, and also come in a range of types, including bullet vibrators, G spot stimulation and rabbits.
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