Have you worked your way through an array of dildos, vibrators and other sex toys? Looking for something a little different to spice things up? Or maybe you have long been wondering how to use anal beads, but never knew who to ask? Whether you are a veteran of anal play, or brand new to butt stuff, beads can take penetrative sex – and your orgasm – to the next level. With a little practice, plenty of lube and just a touch of patience, you can transform your sex life, enjoy amazing new sensations and make butt play a brand new part of your sexual experience. Read on for exactly what you need to know about anal beads…
As the name suggests, anal beads are a specific type of toy, designed to be inserted anally. The toys feature a series of small bulbs on a long string or chain, which closely resemble beads – hence the name. Most fans of anal toys are more familiar with butt plugs, but it is worth observing that the two toys are pretty different. Alicia Sinclair, certified sex educator explains that while plugs offer a full feeling, anal beads provide stimulation through movement. While butt plugs are more commonly used to prep the main event, beads are the main event.
Why Do People Use Anal Beads?
Beads are a popular toy for those just getting used to butt stuff, as they tend to be a little more accessible than other forms of anal penetration. Anal beads stimulate the anal sphincter muscles, and this awakens the nerve endings which usually remain dormant. This means that the act of inserting and removing the beads can offer a thrilling and satisfying pleasure, totally unique and offering something a little different to standard anal penetration play. In addition, the relatively smaller size of beads means that they can be a little less intimidating to those new to butt stuff.
Anal beads stimulate sensitive nerve endings, and can offer a totally unique, mindblowing sensation!
Anal Bead Beginners
If you are new to using beads, there are a number of factors to bear in mind to have the best anal beads experience for you. To help you focus on fun, here are the main things to consider:
Anal beads can provide plenty of pleasure, but that doesn’t mean you should rush the process. Start slowly and steadily, taking your time. Always make sure that in your first session, you are not rushed – give yourself plenty of time to allow you to explore, and get yourself used to the sensations and experience of anal play. It can be a bit of a shock to newbies!
Beads come in all shapes and sizes, but beginners should remember to start small – you can always build up to larger and more exotic beads as your confidence grows, and your body gets used to the sensations and feelings.
Use Plenty Of Lube
One of the most important aspects to consider is that we always use plenty of lube when using beads – and this goes for silicone toys, dildos and anything involving the anus. Unlike the vagina, this area of the body does not produce its own lubrication, and so you will need to improvise with a quality water based lube. Any sex educator will tell you the importance of not skimping on this step – be generous and lather both the anus and the toy with plenty of lube to help everything slide in smoothly, and keep you safe and satisfied.
Only Use Toys Specifically Meant As Anal Beads
As any certified sex coach will tell you, another important point to note is that you must only use toys specifically meant as anal beads made with body safe materials – inserting foreign objects into the anus can be very risky. Unlike the vagina, items inserted into the anus can and do get lost inside the body – this is why only using quality beads is essential for avoiding unwanted trips to the emergency room. Authorized toys will come with a chain which is slightly larger than the anus, making it easy to extract, and minimizing the risk of items getting lost inside the body.
Tips For Beginners
- Start slow and small
- Deep breathing
- Be generous with lube when using anal beads
- Only use specific toys meant as anal beads
Anal Bead Safety
In order to focus on the pleasure provided, it is important to stay safe when using anal beads.
As we mentioned, using plenty of lube is crucial for enjoying your beads safely and in comfort, allowing you to enjoy pleasure rather than discomfort. As a rule, silicone based toys should avoid being used with a silicone based lube – this can cause damage and degrade the quality of the toy over time, something which is not only annoying, but which could cause hygiene issues. If the silicone of the toy is damaged by the silicone lube, it allows cracks and crevices to develop – this makes it almost impossible to sterilize, and can harbor bacteria which can then enter the body. Avoid this by using a water-based lube with toys made from silicone.
Use A Condom If Sharing
If you decide to share your beads, it is important to always use a condom when using the toys. In an ideal world, however, you will have one set of beads to each person during play time; sharing is not really advised for hygiene reasons.
Don’t Switch Between Anal And Vaginal Use
Never switch between anal and vaginal use for your beads; this is a real health no-no. While beads can offer incredible anal and vaginal stimulation, they must be cleaned thoroughly between use. Both the rectum and anus contain bacteria, which are completely natural in this area. If they are introduced to the vagina via double penetration, however, unwanted cross contamination can occur, and this can result in some seriously nasty infections.
Cleaning Your Anal Beads
Hygiene is essential to any sex toy, but especially anything which is going near your butt. Anal toys come into close contact with fecal matter, and it is inevitable that traces of this will be on the toy. This means that thorough cleaning is absolutely crucial, and this should be carried out after every use. Use hot, soapy water to completely wipe over the surface of your beads, and make sure that they air dry completely before using them again. You can also use a specialist sex toy cleaner.
- Avoid silicone lubes with silicone toys
- Don’t double dip in the same sex act
- Clean with warm water and mild soap each time
What Is The Difference Between Anal Beads And Butt Plugs?
While beads have a lot in common with your standard butt plug, they are actually pretty different in practice.
Beads feature a “chain” of spheres, made from metal, silicone or glass, all connected together, and are used by inserting each bead into your anus, before offering pleasure by moving the chain in and out of the rectum, stimulating the nerves which sit around this area. Often, the size of the bead gradually increases along the chain.
A butt plug, on the other hand, is used to “plug” the anus, and is designed to enter the butt, remaining in place, usually featuring a flared base, until you or a partner removes them. In most cases, the butt plug will be made from silicone, metal or even glass, though the latter are not recommended for beginners.
Exactly what is the best option for you is really dependent on your wishes: beads offer stimulation and pleasure, while plugs tend to have more preparatory purposes.
How To Choose The Right Anal Beads For You
Choosing the best anal beads is a personal preference, and will depend on your wishes; while some may enjoy vibrating anal beads with varying speeds, others may be better off with a static set of beads. Beginners should start small and work their way up and, as with a butt plug, should opt for a silicone material as opposed to glass and metal, which can be tricky for newbies to manage. It is always a good idea to start smaller and work your way up, rather than going in with beads which are too large.
Remember to start small to enjoy the pleasurable sensations and build up – there is plenty of time for bigger toys.
Frequently Asked Questions
You use anal beads by carefully inserting the beads one by one into the anus. The beads are connected via a chain usually with the smallest bead at the start, making it easy to pop them in – deep breaths often help. Once all of the beads are inserted, you can experiment with moving them in and out as you desire – this is where the fun starts!
You should use lube with your anal beads – this is one of the most important considerations when playing with anal beads. Always make sure that the lube you select is compatible with the material, for example avoid silicone based lubes with toys made from silicone, or you risk damaging the toy. Never skimp on lube – the more lube, the smoother the experience!
Clean your anal beads after every use using hot, soapy water or a dedicated toy cleaner. This is extremely important. Thoroughly wipe over the entire surface of the beads and leave them to air dry completely before inserting them back into your body – as any pleasure professional will tell you, your sexual health is important.
Anal beads can be an amazing way to spice up your sex life, and add a whole new layer of pleasure to your orgasm! Whether you are experienced with anal toys and looking for new challenges – such as vibrating anal beads – or are new to butt play and taking it slow, there is plenty to enjoy – once you learn how to use anal beads, the world of butt sex will really open up.