Whether you are a sex toy veteran or brand new to the world of dildos, the suction cup dildo could just be the toy you need to create an incredible new sexual experience. From doing it doggy style to incredible ass and pussy penetration, a suction cup dildo opens up a whole new world of opportunity, and can be great to share with a partner, or trying some solo suction cup dildo positions. Curious about the opportunities, keen to try something new and want to know just how to use a suction cup dildo? Read on for the ultimate guide.
In many ways, suction cup dildos are pretty similar to standard models, with one major difference: they can be attached to various surfaces and objects around your homes, including furniture, walls, doors and hardwood floors – here, you are only limited by your creativity. This means that rather than rely on your hand, or that of a significant other, to get you off by carefully manipulating and moving the dildo to the perfect location, you can instead enjoy incredible hands-free fun – on your knees, while stimulating your nipples, or if you are looking for something to suck… these toys have it all – all you need is somewhere to stick it!
In Short:
A dildo with a sticky suction base, which can be attached to surfaces and items for a whole new penetration experience.
Types Of Suction Cup Dildos
Suction dildos come in a wide range of types and material, including a curved dildo, as well as different finishes, sizes and colors, ranging from the fantastical – dragon style anyone? – to the hyper realistic, complete with textures, wrinkles and even pubic hair. Suction cup dildos can be uses for both vaginal and anal pleasure, and are designed to meet each of these needs; models designed for vaginal use typically have thicker diameters, while as a rule those designed for butt sex will be thinner, and usually include some kind of flared base in addition to the suction.
Most materials used in suction cup toys are lightweight, and they are typically made from rubber, silicone or “jelly like” elastomers. Our favorite suction cup dildos are those which offer a super comfortable experience for the user, and which give you the ride of your life.
Why Choose A Suction Cup Dildo?
So, just what can a strong suction cup dildo offer you? The main appeal here is flexibility: the nature of suction cup dildos means that they are the perfect option for some sensual hands-free fun, whether you choose to play alone, or let your partner join in.
Less Hand Action Needed
Using a regular dildo can get frustrating after a while; you have to physically hold onto it, keep it in place, and move it inside you – even if you opt for a remote controlled or vibrating dildo. While these will move inside you, you need to control the movement. Suction cup dildos like these, on the other hand, do all the work for you – all you need to do is attach the dildo to the desired surface, and you can play out your wildest fantasies whenever the mood takes you!
Realistic Experience
Some users have also reported a more “realistic” experience with suction cup dildo play, as the need to keep interacting with the toy directly is eliminated – this makes it easier to imagine your lover pounding away. Many suction cup dildos are also compatible with other toys, including strap on harnesses, and this can be a great way to try something new!
Suggestions For Using Your Suction Cup Dildo
We have mentioned the flexibility and versatility of suction cup dildos; but just how can they be used? By finding the best suction cup dildo position for you, you can transform your pleasure, and experiment in ways you had never previously dreamed of. From the kitchen floor to a toilet seat, your favorite rocking chair to a bathroom wall, there are plenty of potential sticking places to test out – just make sure you have the dildo stuck in place firmly before you start!
Floor
These dildos are perfect for attaching securely to a solid, smooth floor, where they stick straight up ready for you to ride! Just make sure your floor is dry and smooth, and that the dildo mount is secure before you start.
Headboard
We all know about the benefits of handcuffs and headboards, but this can also be amazing for attaching your dildo to, and enjoying some doggy style fun. Attach the suction ends to the headboard itself, with the dildo sticking out, and position your backside so that the dildo can easily penetrate you as you move back and forth.
Make sure you have a secure base; if your mattress is a little old, you could have to battle sagging and an uneven surface, and this can have a negative impact on your overall experience.
Mirrors
If you are into adding a little spice to your sex life, why not try attaching the suction cup dildo to a mirror – this will allow you to see everything you are doing, which can be an incredible turn on. You can opt for a mirror on the wall – just make sure it is secured firmly in place – and penetrate yourself doggy style, looking between your legs to enjoy every sensual moment.
This is also a great one to share with a partner – you can let them watch as you take your pleasure from elsewhere, and they can only get involved when you say…
Bathroom
Transform a simple bathroom into a playground of pleasure and make the most of your dildo. There are a range of possibilities here – including toilet seats – but the shower wall is probably the best to try first. You typically face the wall, and place the toy on the wall of the shower, the side of a bath, or on the floor. You may also have cut-outs or ledges in your shower wall which can be great to stick your dildo to, find a good angle, and lean forward into a comfortable position with – the end result will feel amazing!
Nightstand
The nightstand is another interesting possibility – and it has the added bonus of being right beside the bed for easy access! As long as your nightstand has a flat, smooth surface, and is the right height, you can attach your dildo to the top or the side, and ride it anally or vaginally depending on the comfort, angle and convenience of your particular nightstand.
This is a great option if you want to play with different angles and pressures, and experiment with the right position to give you the perfect thrill.
Desk
Many have the fantasy of being bent over a desk and pleasured, and this is your chance to transform this fantasy into a reality! A word of warning: this is much easier for those with long legs to allow you to get the angle right, and ensure that you are comfortable rather than clinging on for dear life or banging your knees!
Door
The door is a great flat surface to try out your dildo on – just make sure you know where the door handle is, and avoid it at all costs! You need to make sure that your door is sturdy enough to withstand your movements without breaking or damaging the hinges, and that you place the dildo at the right height for comfortable insertion.
Washer/Dryer
A washer/dryer has often been cited as the household item of choice when it comes to stimulation, and you can combine the vibrations of the appliance with your dildo for a unique and sensual experience – just make sure everyone is out of the house if you are looking for privacy, as this can get pretty loud!
Kitchen Counter
The kitchen counter is a classic, and its popularity is for good reason – this is a perfect option for enjoying vaginal penetration, and hitting the G spot every time. You can also use the counter edge to brace your weight, pushing it as you ride the dildo to keep you stable and able to maintain momentum.
Carrying Out Fantasies With Your Suction Cup Dildo
One of the advantages of suction cup dildo screwing is that it allows plenty of opportunities to try something totally new and exotic thanks to its flexible and versatile design. Sexual fantasy does more than just get you in the mood for exciting things – it can also make the overall sexual experience far more pleasurable, as you are aroused in advance.
Suction dildos can help you to determine what does and doesn’t work for you, and can be a great way to get to know your body.
Threesomes
If you have ever wanted to try out a threesome, but are reluctant to add a third person into your relationship, suction bottomed dildos could be the answer you have been looking for; you can stick the toy down on a wall, door or headboard, and focus totally on your partner without having to worry about moving or adjusting the dildo – perfect for recreating that threesome experience without compromising the dynamics of your relationship.
New Locations
From the shower to the floor, suction dildos are a perfect place to try out sex in new places – now is the time to let your imagination run wild!
Masturbation
Suction cup dildos also make masturbation far more exciting, as you can try a larger range of positions and movements, without the need to constantly hold or move the dildo; simply choose your position, secure the dildo in place and get ready to ride! Whether you are flying solo or trying something new with your partner, this can really spice things up.
Safety is a priority for a successful sexual experience, and an important element of trying anything new. A good rule is to always opt for the right length dildo to maintain comfort and safety.
Not Just For Women!
As we mentioned, suction cup dildos can be used for both vaginal and anal play, meaning that they can be perfect for men – both in terms of penetration, and as a toy to pleasure their partner.
Misconceptions Busted
There are a number of misconceptions when it comes to men and dildos; that using one makes you “gay”, or in some ways less of a man. These are obviously nonsensical, and the stigma is slowly starting to fade as sex toys for men become more mainstream and popular. Men can enjoy the sensation of anal play, or use the toy to penetrate their partner.
Prostate Stimulation
When it comes to how to use a suction cup dildo as a man, your first priority needs to be stimulating the prostate; this can be achieved by finding your preferred location, be that the floor or the wall, adding plenty of water based lubricant, and then riding the dildo for incredible anal penetration.
Fantasy Indulgence
As with women, there are plenty of fantasies to indulge – why not try riding the dildo while stroking your cock at the same time, or play out a threesome fantasy of your very own? You could also spice things up by connecting this to other toys such as vibrators, harnesses or cock rings.
How Can A Man Use A Suction Dildo?
- Anal pleasure
- In conjunction with other sex toys
- Enjoy a threesome fantasy
Suction Cup Safety
One of the most important considerations when enjoying your suction cup is to ensure that you and your partner are safe, and there are two main aspects to this: during the actual use of the dildo, and in maintaining excellent hygiene and cleanliness to help you enjoy and make the most of every moment.
Use
While using the dildo, it is important that you prioritize comfort and safety at all times – this includes only using a size that you are comfortable with, making sure that there is plenty of lube available. With your first suction cup dildo, start small and build up. Remember: you can always increase the size of your dildo as you grow more confident, so start slow. A tapered head is a good idea for anything you plan to put in your ass.
Remember to be generous with lube – and choose the right one for your toy’s material. It will help you enjoy your experience far more!
Cleaning
Cleaning and hygiene is super important – this is an essential element of sex toy ownership, and should be a number one priority. It is best to opt for body safe silicone dildos, as these are non-porous meaning that there are no cracks or crevices which an allow bacteria to fester and grow. The nature of dildos, and the area of the body they are used in, means that rigorous hygiene is essential to help reduce the risk of disease and infections from spreading. It is crucial that your toy is thoroughly cleaned after each and every use – this can be achieved with a specialist sex toy cleaner, or by cleaning the whole surface in warm water after every use. Allow the toy to thoroughly air dry before using.
Remember:
- Start slow and build your way up
- Maintain excellent hygiene
- Use plenty of lube
Frequently Asked Questions
What Is A Suction Cup Dildo?
A suction cup dildo is a type of dildo which includes a sticky suction cup on the base. This base can then be attached to surfaces including floors, walls, doors and furniture, allowing both vaginal and butt fun in a number of positions, both alone and with a partner – perfect for a doggy style position, or to practice deep throat. Suction cup screwing offers plenty of possibilities!
How Do I Use A Suction Cup Dildo?
Use a suction cup dildo by fixing securely to a surface – then in exactly the same way as an ordinary dildo or real penis, by penetrating the vagina or anus for that sweet G spot stimulation. The difference here is that these offer incredible hands-free orgasms, rather than have to control and maneuver the dildo. As a result, you can enjoy greater flexibility and versatility in your orgasms.
How Can Men Use A Suction Cup Dildo?
Men can use a suction cup dildo in a number of ways, including masturbation and self-penetration. The easiest way to play is to attach the dildo to a surface such as a wall, slowly lower to your knees, then gently lower yourself down on to it at the right angle before riding it to orgasm. This is great for living out fantasies, and trying something new.
Can You Use A Vibrating Dildo With A Suction Cup?
You can use a vibrating dildo with a suction cup, but make sure that you are comfortable with the toy before you get started – start small, with a size you can handle, and build up to a larger girth. Remember to always use plenty of lube to ensure you are comfortable.
Can You Use A Suction Cup Dildo With A Harness?
You can use a suction cup dildo with a harness; in fact, suction cups are great to use with harnesses and other toys thanks to their base! This can be a great way to try something new and experiment with suction, other dildos and double penetration – especially if you are looking for a new option for penetrative play.
Conclusion
Now you know how to use a suction cup dildo, and all the available opportunities the main question is where are you going to use your new toy next. This is a great investment for your toy box – and your entire body – which has the potential to bring something different to your sex life, and unlock a whole new world of penetration play.
